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Boundaries

Guided boundary conversations and agreements.
Live todayClient time · 10 to 15 minutes for the conversationAs a couple · each partner answers on their own, then both pick
Walk through it

Say the thing once. Get it worded three ways.

A private space, then a few options in plain words, then both people pick. This walkthrough follows a made up couple, Nate and Jill, and Nate's mother who lets herself in. Tap a reply to move it along.

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Your private space · Nate
A walkthrough with fixed replies. The real one is a conversation, and nothing in it is visible to a partner.
How an agreement is made

Both people pick, or there is no agreement.

Each partner has their own private space and never sees the other's. The options that come out of it are worded by the platform, shown to both, and an agreement exists only where the two picks match.

  • A mismatch is not a failure. It is shown to both as a mismatch, and it goes on the coach's list for the next session
  • The coach can see it before either partner does, which is the point of releasing it rather than pushing it
  • There is a gate before any of this runs. Where the screening suggests coercive control, the module does not offer agreements at all, and routes to the coach
  • Nothing is sent from the chat. A message reaches a partner only through an agreement both of them picked
Why it is worded for you

Most people know the boundary. They cannot find the sentence.

The hard part was never deciding that the front door needs a knock. It is saying it to somebody you love without it becoming a fight about respect. Three worded options, none of them cruel, and you pick the one you could actually say out loud.

Private by construction

Your partner sees nothing here.

Partner isolation is enforced below the application, not by a screen that hides things. One client's space cannot be read from the other's account at all.

Reviewed

The coach reads it first.

Options reach a client when the practitioner releases them. Nobody gets a worded boundary about their mother at eleven at night without their coach having seen it.

It becomes a record

What you both agreed, kept.

An agreement is a page both people can open in a month, which settles most of the arguments about what was actually agreed.

How it reaches a client

Every module starts off.

Nothing in this catalog is on by default. A certified practitioner switches a module on for their practice, then on for the client it suits, and can switch it off again. The client never sees a module their coach did not choose for them.

The coach decides

Per practice, then per client. A module a practitioner does not work with is never offered to anybody they see.

Some need a certification

Money, Body, Couples, Faith and Business modules stay greyed in the catalog, naming the track required, until it is on the practitioner's file.

It is sent, not installed

Copy the link, email it or text it from the console. The client opens it on their phone with nothing to install and nothing to log into.

Nothing is scored at the client

Clients see their own material in their own words. Composite names, severity levels and normalised scores never appear on a client screen.

Want to run Boundaries with your people? Get certified.

Boundaries is one module inside Stronghold. Certified practitioners switch it on, send it, and decide when the client sees what comes back.

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